Just got my first (and likely only) IVF cycle completed and it was such a crazy ride. Every day there was something new to tackle and so much information to process. If I could tell my "pre-IVF self" anything? Don't make plans and go with the flow. One thing that helped through was a nice little reminder in my IVF notebook "Strive for progress, not perfection" and that ultimately gave me solace as I waded through the data versus the reality of my specific circumstances. What would you tell YOUR pre-IVF self??